I'm
only a novice in the world of biblical counseling, and I haven't read
that many books on the subject. But of those I have read, the one
I've found most useful is Paul Tripp's Instruments in the
Redeemer's Hands. It's a very
well-rounded book: deeply theological but also very practical,
especially in the latter half. It's also full of items from Tripp's
own experience as a counselor, which really helps to express abstract
concepts in personal, concrete ways.
I
recommend this book to anyone who is serious about learning how to
counsel others biblically.
If
you want to know more about the specific contents of the book, check
out the chapter summaries below.
Chapter
1 – The best news in the world is that God is radically changing
people to enjoy and display His glory. We realize the need for change
in the world and in ourselves, but our sinfulness makes this
impossible. Our sin has made us rebellious against God, foolishly
self-dependent, and incapable of doing what God has ordained us to
do. “The good news of the kingdom is not freedom from hardship,
suffering, and loss,” says Tripp. “It is the news of a Redeemer
who has come to rescue me from myself.”
Chapter
2 – God uses ordinary people to do extraordinary things in the
lives of others. The church will only grow as each member does its
work. “Our
mission is to teach, admonish, and encourage one another to rest in
his sovereignty, rather than establishing our own; to rely on his
grace rather than performing on our own; and to submit to his glory
rather than seeking our own.”
Chapter
3 – Genesis 1 shows us that we as human beings are fundamentally
dependent on God to help us make sense of life and the facts of our
existence. And so, we sin when we listen to other competing voices
instead of God's. In order to live life properly, we must live in
“humble, honest community with one another, where personal ministry
is part of the daily culture.”
Chapter
4 – For counseling to produce true transformation, it must address
the fundamental problem of man: a sinful heart. The essence of sin is
actually idolatry, and whoever/whatever rules our hearts “will
control the way we respond to both suffering and blessing.”
Chapter
5 – Situations do not force us to sin. Rather, sin is rooted in
self-worship. Tripp argues that “Our desire to set up our own
kingdom is in direct conflict with the King who has come to rule in
our hearts. This is the war beneath all others.”
Chapter
6 – Biblical counseling can produce lasting change only if it is
Christ-centered. Truth, according to Tripp, “in its most basic
form, is not a system, a theology, or a philosphy. It is a person
whose name is Jesus. Living a godly life means trusting him,
following him, and living like him.” God's plan is for people to
see Him through the Christlike character of the church and of
individual believers. One way to apply this truth is the
“Love-Know-Speak-Do Model” of personal ministry.
Chapters
7 and 8 – LOVE. The foundation for people-transforming ministry is
love. The only way to participate effectively in Christ's work is to
build loving ministry relationships. There are four elements to this.
First, we must enter the person's world. Second, we must incarnate
the love of Christ. Third, we must identify with the person's
suffering. And fourth, we must accept the person, but with a
transformational agenda.
Chapters
9 & 10 – KNOW. Just as Christ sympathized with us, we must do
the same to others. Biblical insight into the nature of man in
general doesn't guarantee that we will easily understand an
individual and his/her situation. This is why we need to ask good
questions. “Biblical
personal ministry thrives when good exegesis of Scripture leads to an
accurate exegesis of the person’s life.” We
can organize the information we gather about counselees in a biblical
way by categorizing each item as either Situation, Response, Thought,
or Motive.
Chapters
11 &
12
– SPEAK.
Confronting
brethren who are sinning should be done in obedience to the First and
Second Great Commandments. Tripp explains that the love required
here, “exists at the intersection of patient grace and intolerance
for sin,” and reflects Christ's own love
as displayed on the cross. Biblical confrontation should start with
the
counselor's self-examination,
be done with the right motives, and be focused on the gospel. The
process includes four steps: Consideration, Confession, Commitment
and Change. Interaction and helping the counselee discover things for
him/herself is preferable to outright declaration by the counselor.
Chapters
13 &
14 – DO. We
must teach others how to approach their problems with an
eternity-oriented perspective, based
on who they are in Christ. We must also help them to close the gap
between what they believe and how they are living. This can be done
in four steps: establishing your personal ministry agenda, clarifying
responsibility, instilling identity in Christ, and providing
accountability.
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